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This time I was not able to participate in the event, but after reading different voices I have a reflection, thanks to what was expressed. I understand judgment as a signal. When I ask myself what this signal is about, first answer is, it is a signal of second phase of the given process. I need to stand strongly on my side and express my position, but without deepening it. We often discover our identity by expressing our reactions to something else. But this process of getting more awareness could be completed only when we go to third phase of the process, it means, deepening our point of view. when it takes place we could understand not only ourselves better, but the other one too. Nevertheless, going too fast from phase two to three could be premature and devastating for our identity. When this shift from phase two to three is not too fast, it is usually enriching. Zbyszek

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Yesyes, can’t agree more dear Zbyszek. For long I thought empathy was The thing to solve conflicts, but to deepen and become more aware of our own position is as crucial as understanding the other side

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